Is there a way to see who has not only said "yes" they would go to any of the reunion events , but also the "maybe" with out clicking on each class mate?

You can get most if not all of what you're seeking at Reunion Planner and then selecting Reports.

The reunion planner reports will indicate all who have actually registered. However, if you go to the top of your Classmate Profiles page, you can click on the event itself as see a list of all who have indicated their intentions for an event by clicking the event in the legend. This number will reflect all who have actually registered as well as those who have indicated Yes in the Yes / No / Maybe question.